Divorce can be challenging at any time for spouses in Connecticut coming to the end of their marriages. However, the winter holidays can be a particularly difficult time for families during or soon after a divorce. This is especially true for couples dealing with issues of child custody, parenting plans and child support during the holiday season. Parents who are ending their marriages can take care of their children's emotional needs and provide a supportive family structure even as they develop parenting plans that look toward the future.
A parenting plan can create a structure for kids that helps them feel supported and not just divided between two homes. This can be an occasion for children to feel that they have two homes that are truly theirs. Of course, this can also mean dealing with loneliness and disappointment for the parts of the holidays when children are with the other parent. There are a few tips for divorcing parents to keep in mind that can help them to manage the holidays for themselves and their children.
One suggestion for self-care for divorcing parents is to surround oneself with friends and family, especially on the occasions when one's child is with their other parent. This can help to stave off loneliness especially amid family-oriented holidays. When a parent does have time with their kids, it can be a time to create new traditions for the holidays to remember and repeat in later years. For people who are going through a difficult time with their ex-partner, sorting out custody issues can be difficult. However, the holidays are not a good time to be inflexible regarding visitation schedules; flexibility can help the kids get the most from the season.
Any parent going through a divorce may benefit from seeking the representation of a family law attorney. A divorce and child custody lawyer may be able to protect a divorcing parent's interests in the court and come to fair agreements that honor the participation of both parents in a child's life.